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my boyfreind and i broke uppp...me and my best freind are in love


Question Posted Sunday June 21 2009, 1:48 am

girl-15 my boyfreind broke up with me, week later my best freind tells me he loves me. i'm not ready for the relationship with my best freind cause i dont want too ruin the freindship, i've loved him for 3 years before my boyfreind, he was one of the reasons we broke up, i love him with all my heart..but i want my ex too take me back, and after a while i think he might. okay so what do i do 1.make my ex like me again 2. make my best freind wait like a year or just forget about me...helpp mee.... ps its my birthday in like 4 days and my ex told me he got me a present..is that normal? and can i accept it if i want it? thankk you :)

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Cux answered Sunday June 21 2009, 2:06 pm:
You and your ex are exes for a reason. Why? Because of your best friend. If you've "loved him for 3 years", then GO OUT WITH HIM.

Don't torture your ex by going out with him again.

I have a theory why you want to be with your ex again. Firstly, it's because it's something you can't have, and you want it for that reason. Secondly, it's because your best friend likes you, so now there's no "challenge" in getting with him. You won't want him until you can't have him.

So please, mature a little bit, and just leave your ex alone.

If you want the birthday present, go ahead.

--Jack
(17/m)

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