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i need advice
i am in love with my sister's husband n he loves me too wat shud we do?i m 24yrs n he is 34yrs.. we love each other very dearly since last 2yrs.. plz help??
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Hm.. wow, this is a really difficult situation. I'm warning you, all of my answers are going to be very dependent on certain details, so if you'd like to update anything and have me re-answer, I'd be completely fine with that. Some things I'd be wondering:
-Did your sister ever know anything about you guys liking each other early on in their relationship?
-How long have they been married, and is it a good relationship?
-Are there children involved?
-What kind of relationship do you have with your sister?
-Is it just an emotional love, or has it gone to a physical level? And have you both actually said you love each other, so that you're both completely sure?
-Is there absolutely anyone else in your life that you could look to for a romantic interest. Or just someone you're close with as a friend that could become more. Anything, really?
Sorry for all of the questions, but I really cannot, to my best ability, give you a good answer without knowing general facts.. just, for now, please try not to move forward with any rash action. Don't make any moves with your sister's husband, and put whatever you have going on hold, so that you have time to really think and look at your life. (Not that you don't have it in order, it's just that a break usually helps most people..). I wouldn't say anything to your sister now (or just yet, at least) about it, either..
I'm really sorry I can't completely answer your question right now, but PLEASE feel free to update your question or e-mail me at ohshnitzelstix@yahoo.com. Seriously, feel free. I'll be checking to see if you update or anything, because I'd really like to do anything I can to help you out.
Best of luck, and I hope to hear from you soon.
XOXO
KAT.
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