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BJ and not cuming? HELP
I have a problem...im 14/f and my boyfriend is 17/m. We have been together awhile and we do a lot of foreplay but we have talke and he knows im not ready for sex and wont be for awhile. I hvae given him bjs though. The problem is....HE WONT CUM! I think he enjoys it because he moans a lot and his toes curl and he looks like hes into it but tonight i tried and i went at it for 50 MINUTES. My jaw is aching and he wouldnt come. eventually he just pulled me up and started kissing me. I don't undrestand. Is it me or do some guys just not cum? Thank you.. :(
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Some guys just aren't able to orgasm from oral sex alone: I've only been able to do it twice in the four years that I've been having sex. You should talk to him about it and try to find a way that you can both be happy without a broken jaw in the mix. You could tell him to finish himself off towards the end and take over right as he's climaxing. Works for me, still feels great.
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Maybe he just.. didn't want to?
None of us here will ever know, but ask him. If you talk to him about it, you won't wonder anymore, and the question might be answered.
--Jack
(17/m)
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DAY-UM 15 minutes you worked at a BJ?!
Here's 2 tips:
1) For some reason some guys are afraid to cum, so they don't allow themselves. Their like embarrassed. The fact he curls his toes can be him stopping himself from cumming. SO I would talk to him about that first and reassure him you want him to cum. Talk about if you'd swallow or not because that's always in the back of their mind.
2) Suck really hard.
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