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fingering/eating out
15/f
my boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 6 months. we have done everything, instead of sex. When he fingers me or eats me out, i dont think i'm getting the pleasure that i think i should be getting. I don't know if it's me or him. We're really open, and i tell him things like what he should do to make it feel better, but i dont know exactly what to tell him. What are good "techniques" for fingering and eating out? What does your guy do? thanks in advance!
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It seems like you're having some physical chemistry problems, but it's most likely more due to your age (and the inherent awkwardness) than anything else. There is no physical reason why you aren't really enjoying it, especially if you're communicating with him about it. It could just be that you're not emotionally ready for it to feel as good as you'd like.
If you've never had an orgasm on your own, then you might want to start with that. Until you know what takes you over the edge, you'll never be able to get there with another person. Once you've gotten that all figured out for yourself, you'll know exactly what he needs to do to satisfy you.
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