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Should I take a hint?
Hello, you're someone whose advice I respect very much, so I decided to direct this at you :).
There has been a boy I've been interested in for about two months. I am 16, he is 18. I thought he was interested in me, however, I am not completely sure.
In two months, he will begin his first year at an out of state college. A few days ago I expressed that I still was interested in him. Last night he told me he did not want to have a serious relationship. I did not either, as it obviously would not work out. I asked him if he did want to hang out at all during the summer or if he was just being polite and we weren't going to actually talk again. He stated that he didn't know. Therefore, I suggested we at least try to hang out once and see what happens.
Basically, I'm wondering if I'm just bullshitting myself. I know you can't really decode someone from the scraps of a conversation I'm providing you, but do you think there is some truth to what's being said or should I forget about him completely? This question probably did not make much sense, but any guidance would be greatly appreciated.
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Thanks for inboxing, and I'm very glad to hear you respect my advice. :)
As for your question, this is a difficult situation. The best thing you can do is talk to him about the it.
Personally? I'm not going to lie, but it seems like he doesn't want a relationship, but he doesn't want nothing to do with you. Do you know what I mean? Like, he's not interested in dating, but he may be interested in a potential friendship or something.
Just be careful and don't let yourself get too attached. And I really think you should talk to him. It's not cool to just let him play games with you :(
-Laura (17-f)
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