you answered my question about the hickey. im not scared. i want one. hes scared they will see it. and i told him not to be. but how can i get him to just do it
You wouldn't want it to be visible anyway; they're very embarrassing and make you look trashy. You wouldn't want that, right? Tell him it can be a private thing, like a secret joke between you two, and then maybe he'll feel more comfortable.
It's important to respect his wishes as well, because sexual acts, even hickies, require both people be into it and happy about it.
Most guys are considered very respectful if they don't leave visible hickies because it shows they don't want to mark up their girlfriends for all the world to see. [ Kendra_Berri's advice column | Ask Kendra_Berri A Question ]
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