I just got a new job lifeguarding, but I dont really feel comfortable with my body. All of the other girls at the pool are sexy and attractive. I don't really know what to do. Seeing as you are NOT the prettiest girl, how do you deal with situations like this? Do you just suffer through it knowing there is nothing you can do to make yourself look better or what?
I consider myself to be a VERY pretty and beautiful girl in my own way and my husband certainly would defend me on that as well. It is all about your own perception of yourself. If you think your pretty and you ACT it and show confidence (and not send people shitty messages in their inbox saying shit like this), then others will see that and it will rub off and they will think you are pretty as well. It all starts with YOU.
And we will ALL have things that we don't like about our bodies. If you don't like your weight, then get motived and DO SOMETHING to change it. Some things ARE in your control.
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