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Question Posted Friday June 12 2009, 12:07 am

well....this guy i know from school,we are friends and we had "cyber sex" and i dont know how i feel about it or how i should feel about it....i dont like him or anything and it was the first time i had "cyber sex"

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hitler_the_goat answered Friday June 12 2009, 11:29 am:
don't worry, he won't tell, unless he wants to be made fun of for being a "cyber-fag" cybersex is just bullshitting while you're masturbating. If any friend of mine came up to me and said "hey I had cyber sex with that chick last night" I'd slap him in the face call him a cyber fag, and tell him thats how nerds have sex. then the whole day I'd ask him whether he "cyber-came on her cyber-face" or if she does "cyber-ass-to-mouth". so don't feel too bad about having cybersex with some dude who isn't going to say anything for fear of the chop-busting his friends will dish out. so whats your screenname? I'm great with one-handed typing...
-Gunner

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kristamikele answered Friday June 12 2009, 10:54 am:
It isn't going to accomplish anything if you feel bad about what you have done.
All forms of intimacy are learning experiences, even cyber sex.
But....If you don't like him, why would you invite him in on that level?
Reasons why not to get intimate with a person you don't feel "that way" about.
They may feel "that way" about you, and it's not fair to lead them on.
You're really just faking it, and you don't want to get into the habit of doing that (you'll miss out on some of the good when it's good)
Well, that's just two, but there's more, and you get the point.
But, you also can't make it a habit of regretting your past. The biggest lesson you'll learn is probably how going to far with a person you don't really like can change the whole mix and make things uncomfortable.

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