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A girl...
So i was dating this girl for like the last 3 weeks right? we went on like ten dates and we got really close. last thursday i took her out to lunch paid the bill, gave her a ride, made small talk and all that good stuff. We went to the park after and she told me that i made her crazy and she was starting to really like me... the next day when i textedd her she responded with the one word text messages, which she normally doesn't do, and like after the third message stopped talking to me. She won't return calls or text me anymore.. she just left today for honduras with her church. i dunno what happened, but maybe you could help? should i get over her and move on? or should i try to like "get her back"
Thanks
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It's obvious that you did absolutly nothing wrong. You seem very sweet and any girl would feel special after a day like that.
Maybe she answered you with one words because she is starting to really like you (like she said) and since she is was leaving for Honduras she didn't want to start anything special just yet. I would ask her why she won't talk to you anymore and why she is acting this way. I don't know if you can ask her while she is away, but when she comes back I would definitely ask her why she is acting the way she is.
It depends on how long she is going to be gone. If it's only for a few weeks then I would just wait it out and not get over her completely and when she gets home, ask her why she is/was acting strangely. Don't text her or call her to ask because it's easy to just ignore a text/a phone call. Go over to her house and ask her in person. If she doesn't give you an answer or still acts strangely about it, ask her why she said that she started liking you and then she just ignores you. If she still doesn't really say anything, I would move on. You deserve a girl that will appreciate you.
But if it's going to be a few months then I wouldn't wait around for her. You might miss a chance with a girl who is really something special. Waiting for someone is like waiting for rain in a drought, useless and disappointing.
In the end, it's really up to you. It's your decision. It just seems really strange to me that the day after you hung out she just stopped talking to you/texting you/answering your phone calls.
Inbox me if you need anymore help on this, I'll be glad to help you, or any other situation for that matter. If it's meant to be, it will happen. You can't fight fate, whatever happens, happens. I know it's cliche, but it's the truth. Good luck. :)
Hope I helped
xoxo,
Brianna
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