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Do I have another shot?
I know this is long but I have 3 things here.
1-If your best friend stalls for 4 months then asks out his girlfriend because he doesnt want to hurt you, and makes you his top priority over his gf, family, friends, homework and etc. and lies to you about it. Does it seem like he has some sort of feelings?
2-We had some issues as friends and our friendship was on and off, I was miserable and I hid it so well when I was around him, yet everyone else knew. When his girlfriend dumped him, he turned miserable..and he broke his promise to me that we can be friends and no more broken pieces and this and that, and it killed me even more. He never understood he just kept saying I felt that way because he felt that way. Which was untrue. We made this agreement not to talk for a month, and I was having a sleepless night and agrivated that I hadn't been sleeping so I ended the friendship, and it was my biggest mistake. I wish I could have made 2 more weeks. That was back in August. We had arugements on and off for 6 months. I was still on his buddy list and in his phone, though he wasn't in mine for months. (How I know this is that he grandma accidently called me on Thanksgiving because I'm the first one in his contacts and when my aunt died I put the date in the profile along with all the others, and my other bestfriend gave him this small story of my life the day after trying to fix our friendship for me and he went 'yeh i know i saw the profile i feel bad i want to say something and cheer her up but i feel like after then i say leave me alone that will hurt her even more'). He told her that he still cared about me and wanted to be friends. Then 2 days later said that he didn't care, then 5 days admitted he lied that he did still care. He told me that he wants to be friends but something in his heart says no. (I know I hurted him with other shit, he tried to help me change my ways because I knew I needed to and I wanted to, and I didn't exactly change change the way we wanted it to be..and I hurt him with all the effort he put in and yadda. *confusing i know*). My best freind wouldn't tell me that they were setting something up, and I messed up being friends again. I didn't say a word for a month and at the end of March he 'accidently' posted his status on my facebook, claiming it was an accident and that it was 1AM and he was tired. Though everyone says it was no accident. Me of all people? He now blocked me on AIM, took me off facebook and myspace after 7 months of not being friends.
3- Then was telling my boyfriend which hes been friends (since 2005) that I'm always gonna wanna talk and do this and that. Warning him about me, and my boyfriend told me all this. So I went to him, and he told me what my boyfriend said to me was untrue. (My boyfriend is also known to be an ass and had a bad rep in high school, I gave him a chance because I knew him back when we were 12 before that all started.) A week after the facebook thing we were in a fight and thats when he blocked me, and my boyfriend came over 2 minutes after the fight ended, which I didn't expect him for another half hour, so I didn't have time to dry up the tears and shit. He asked to see the convo and I showed him, and he got pissed becaused he saw the way he worded shit that he still cared bout me. Then called him trying to fix things and failed..Is he jealous of my boyfriend? Protecting me from getting hurt?
If it wasn't for the facebook thing, and me snapping and saying something, I wouldn't have spoken to him since Feb. I'm now on 1 month and 1 week, which I have done before, though it's the longest.
I haven't seen him since last July. I want to see him again, I want to talk to himm and be friends again though it may be awkward. I know I should just wait out the time and hope things come around.
We live less than 2 miles away and we have yet to see each other, (I'm an year older). He leaves for college in 2 months, and I may see him at a BBQ or something a week before that.
I still cry and think about him, but not as much as I used to (thankfully) and have dreams every now and then of us talking things out and becoming friends again. Which I hate to sleep after that..because I believe a dream is a wish your heart makes.
-Why did he stall her?
-Is everyone right that he had feelings but wouldn't admit it?
-Why did he say the truth to my best friend then lie to me?
-Was the facebook thing a real accident?
-Why did he bad mouth me to my boyfriend?
-How can I get passed this?
-Will he eventually come around again?
-What do I do?
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Hello- sorry I didn't get to this right away.
Honestly, I can't read his mind.
Talk to him and straighten things out, that's the only advice I can give you.
Thanks for inboxing.
--Jack
(17/m)
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