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Not that Girl
Okay so I just finished 7th grade and I had this bf who cheated on my friends and after we broke up he treated me like crap. But I had fun with him while it lasted cuz he always talked about how he loved me and we made out twice so I was pretty happy, but now I just have a lot of guy friends and no one is asking me out. My ex bf is going out with a girl named Taylor and she's like really pretty and he likes her way more than he liked me. All the guys that I crush on like me a little bit, but they all like Taylor or Caroline or some other girl thats sexier than me. What can I do to make them see me and like me better?
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sorta curious as to why you asked me, of all people... okay, let's see what I can pull out of my bag of tricks while the cranberries are still playing on media player.
please understand, the world of seventh grade dating is really nothing like real life, the best advice I can give you is to try presenting yourself more as a girl than as that girl who is one of the guys. though on that note, being entertaining is always a plus, so if you have any skills with situational comedy, use them. what you want going through their heads is something along the lines of " hell yeah those other girls are hot, but (your name here) is cool as hell and pretty cute too.". those other girls have looks on you, you need to develop something else to combat that. being pretty isn't everything, it just happens to be the most noticable. in my job, those girls would be the marines doing a frontal assault, whereas you are the crafty special forces operator that uses skill rather than brute force, to get what she wants.
still keep in mind that you're in seventh grade, and that you have years ahead of you before high school's out, sometimes that girl that nobody noticed at your age will become the most beautiful girl as a senior in high school. funny how that works.
good night, or at least it is over here.
-gunner
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