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Jerks
Ugh it makes me so mad because it seems like everytime I find a boy that I really like he's either using me or he just wants to feel me up and doesn't care about me at all... What do I do?
14/F
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because boys think of girls as new exciting fun toys to play with. how about you stop looking around for the stupid ones and find one thats relatively smart and not a douche. oh yeah, thats right, because girls love the asshole guy, and don't start looking for one that'll treat her right until they hit age 22. god damn I'm a bitter scoundrel. you could try waiting until they get over their "plaything" phase.
-gunner
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In my opinion, it's because most guys around your age are curious and are exploring their sexual desires. I think you should wait until you are at least 16 or maybe a bit older to go out with a guy, because they cause too much heartache. I'm not sexist or anything, but due to my own experiences I wish I would have waited until I was 18 or 19 to go out with someone. Not only to save myself the heartache, but I would've been a much better and nicer person if I would have waited. Of course, that is just me, too. Everyone takes their experiences different than others. Some become stronger, others weaker, depending on the circumstances. Some guys are very mature for their age, but usually the older the guy the more mature they are. That's the only reason I tell you that you should wait. Or make it clear to them what your expectations are before going out with them. Another thing I wish I would have done.
Sorry I couldn't help more.
Best of luck
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Stop dating for a while.
You're 14 & have all the time in the world to worry about boys. Concentrate on yourself.
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