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he makes me horny but im a virgin
ok so me and my bf have been together for almost 6 months. im a virgin. and im 16 years old. and im a female. just so you know. well when we hug and kiss and stuff i want to keep doing it. and possibly go further. and i get this stuff in my underwear like while were together. its kinda clearish then it turns like kinda whitish. is this what it means to get wet? but me and him havent gotten that far at all. and i dont know how to get us a little further then we are. or how i can stop getting wet while im with him. it also kind of stinks is that normal? how do i make it not. i dont want him to smell it or see it or anything. please help me. im new to all these feelings. thankyou in advance. i rate.
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This is the reason we're born with hands. And feet, if you're into that.
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Yes it is normal to feel that way, it clearly shows that your hormones are working properly. And yes that means you are very wet, about the smelling part i wouldn't know cause i am a guy.
But what i can advice you is that don't rush into going to bed with him unless you are ready and PLEASE don't let him rush you into having sex. If he truly loves you, he would wait for you until you are ready to have it. But by the look of things he seems sweet, but i am no encouraging you to go and have him!
And always remember SAFE SEX, NO CONDOMS NO SEX!
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You're experiencing basically the female equivalent of an erection for a guy. There's really no way to avoid if you're getting aroused. There's nothing bad about it at all. As far as the smell goes, I can't help you there.
This is all apart of growing up and hormones and all that. What you have to learn I guess is to harness those hormones. 6 months is a good amount of time for a relationship for someone your age and i'm sure you two have gotten close, but you really need to think long and hard before you want to jump into the realm of sex. No pun intended, btw.
There is a lot of emotional stuff that comes after having sex, it could be good or bad as far as how it affects your relationship. Maybe you should take your time and not jump head first into sex. I would say some dry humping or touching my help relieve these situations. It's a lot safer, that's for sure.
I'm not going to encourage you to actually do the big deed, but if you do, please remember to use protection. There is nothing wrong with experimenting and exploring alternate means though. It's far safer and maybe a better way to ease into things.
Either way, best of luck. This is all part of growing up. Don't rush it and remember love is more than just the physical :)
Hope I could be of help!
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