Free AdviceGet Free Advice
Home | Get advice | Give advice | Topics | Columnists | - !START HERE! -
Make Suggestions | Sitemap

Get Advice


Search Questions

Ask A Question

Browse Advice Columnists

Search Advice Columnists

Chat Room

Give Advice

View Questions
Search Questions
Advice Topics

Login

Username:
Password:
Remember me
Register for free!
Lost Password?

Want to give Advice?

Sign Up Now
(It's FREE!)

Miscellaneous

Shirts and Stuff
Page Backgrounds
Make Suggestions
Site News
Link To Us
About Us
Terms of Service
Help/FAQ
Sitemap
Contact Us


im confused


Question Posted Wednesday June 3 2009, 1:23 am

i stay with my babydaddy but we not together.he broke up with me on my birthday last year cause he though i was mad cause he work that day.which was sad cause that was not true.nut he was my first or everything including virginity.but i feel like he using me.lik if i say i won\'t give him money he would kick me out.and othe girls he talk to they don\'t give him money and he respect them more then me and im the mother of his chilld.he call me stupid slow.one day he love me the next he say he can\'t wait till i get out his life.then i found out he guve girls money.and im working hard giving him money and he don\'t help me out.he not even working.and when he go out of town i let him stay at my mom place.and he let gurls pick him up over there.and he tell me oh we ain;t together.i no we not together but y u doing that.and we have sex i give him a blow job.and i found out he having unprotected sex and he laugh and says we not togetther why u geeting mad for.i mean you my first that took my virginity why he doing this to me.its lik every time i stand up 4 myself he want to kick me out or something.please help me



[ Answer this question ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?


chakra answered Wednesday June 3 2009, 6:29 am:
I think deep down you know what to do, let him go. It hurts so bad because you love him but he doesn't feel the same way.

You are right to feel used, he's getting money from you and sex without having to comit.

Thats not what you want, no one would. You're in a horrible situation but you have the power the get out of it, get one over on him by letting go and moving on with your life.
No matter how hard that is to do, think how sweet that revenge will be when you cut off his sex and money supply, when he see's that you can make it on your own, that you don't need him, and when you eventually meet a nice guy who will take care of you and give you the respect you deserve.

In all honestly, get out of his life, cut all ties with him. Do not contact him, do not take his calls, do not give him money and do not give him sex!

Take care xxx

[ chakra's advice column | Ask chakra A Question
]


More Questions:

<<< Previous Question: law of attraction or 'the secret'
Next Question >>> related songs.

Recent popular questions:
Want to give advice?

Click here to start your own advice column!

What happened here with my gamer friends?

All content on this page posted by members of advicenators.com is the responsibility those individual members. Other content © 2003-2014 advicenators.com. We do not promise accuracy, completeness, or usefulness of any advice and are not responsible for content.

Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content.
Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.

[Valid RSS] eXTReMe Tracker