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Sacrifice his feelings for mine?
Okay here the deal ..
There's this guy named "T" who i went to go play pool with as friends.. Then we ended up crashing a party and he introduced me to his friends one was named "E" and "E" started talking to me and i guess we felt chemistry between us but before he could ask for my number "T" grabbed me and we left. The next day "T" told me he liked me on the phone and i told him i didn't like him. Then "E" called "T" and asked for my number and "T" said no she's mine. And i really like "E" but "T" likes me and i don't want to hurt him and tell him i like "E" what should i do?
tell "T" and let him suck it up?
or forget about "E"?
and "T" is the only way i can ever contact or see "E" again.. :S
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Ouch, that's a hard situation. Since 'E' is 'T's friend, it is kind of crappy to date 'E' knowing that 'T' likes you. You have to do what makes you happy though. If I were you, I would try to get E's number in some way. If you can't get his number, find his MySpace or Facebook page and try to contact him on there in order to get his number. Don't tell 'T' that you like him right away. At this point, though there was obvious chemistry, 'E' doesn't really know whether you like him or not.
Talk to 'E' for a while and get to know him better. Let 'T' know that you have been talking to 'E' some, that way if you do end up dating 'E', it won't be a total shock. Once you've talked to 'E' for a while, if you're sure you like him, go for it.
'T' is going to have to deal with it. Yeah, he's going to be hurt at first. But hopefully by then, he will understand that he can't hold people down just because he feels a certain way. Maybe he'll even be nearly over his crush on you and it won't be a bunch of drama at all.
But, as I said, I would give it a little while of getting to know 'E' before you immediately decide to date him. There is the potential of 'T' getting very hurt, so you want to make sure you really like 'E' before you risk hurting 'T's feelings.
Darby(:
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