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So hurt!!
Hi!!!
Well, this guy I like...he confuses me. He likes me and we date than he asks me if he my friend likes him..I told him the truth, no. Well after we start dating my friend ( not my friend anymore) starts to like him and she tells me that he doesn't like me and crap. She told me that she wouldn't date him because I like him a lot ..well now they are dating and this guy I like is going to get hurt because my ex friend is a jurk..she likes 3 other guys plus him..and she told me she didn't even like him that much. So, he dumps me for her..and he broke up with me because he says that I lied about my friend liking me.He won't believe me..but it's true. I'm really heart broken and I don't know what to do..please help.
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Okay, so, he asked you if your friend liked him while you guys were still dating? That's off to me. If he's dating you, he shouldn't be worrying about whether or not your friend has feelings for him. He should only be concerned about you and how you feel about him.
That's also a really stupid reason to break up with someone. He broke up with you because you told him she didn't like him, and she did? This guy is obviously a jerk.
You say your ex friend is a jerk, too. I would say they're both jerks, which makes them perfect for each other. You shouldn't worry about whether or not she really likes him or if she doesn't like him much and actually likes 3 other guys. If I were you, she wouldn't get an opportunity to tell me that because I wouldn't be speaking to her.
I don't think you should try to get involved at this point. Telling your ex boyfriend that your ex best friend actually likes three other guys too will only cause drama. You'll be heartbroken a lot longer if drama gets started. Your ex boyfriend and ex best friend will start saying things that they don't really mean.
Your ex boyfriend will ask your ex best friend if she really told you that. Your ex best friend will say that she never told you that. Your ex boyfriend will believe her because he won't want to believe that his girlfriend really likes three other guys. They will both say that you're trying to get them to break up because you're jealous.
That will be the exact course of actions if you try to tell him what your ex best friend told you. You should just steer clear of both of them. You can find a better boyfriend and a better friend. If they're going to be immature and play games, just leave them behind. Spend time with your other friends and don't respond to calls/emails/texts from these two.
Darby
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