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Is he bad or is he good. That is the question.
Hey,
18/female
I really, really like this guy. No, this isn't one of those "do you think he likes me back" questions. Anyways, two of my friends told me that they heard he is a "bad guy" and he just likes to sleep around and can be rude to girls. But he is never rude to me. He says the sweetest things, does the sweetest things and he's just so sweet. For example, we were talking a walk one night and there was this huge puddle of water. I'm talking huge. Like I would of had to jump across it. So, what does he do? He picks me up and carries me across the water. I was in heaven. Anyways, my friends heard that he is bad news and just wants 'sexual relationships' but he never pressures me or tries to do anything sexual with me. If he wants to go further, take it to the next level he'll ask and if I say no he won't ask any questions.
I have a good head on my shoulders and I know how to say no to guys. I've been hurt in the past and I like to take things slow and not rush into anything too sexual right away.
So I guess what I'm asking is should I continue hanging out with him/talking with him and see for myself? I feel like in life you need to take chances. I don't want to look back and say wonder "what if?" But I also don't want to get hurt.
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That's just his reputation according to people that don't really know him. A guy could sleep with a couple girls in his entire life and all of a sudden people are saying he's a manwhore and only wants sex. The same goes for girls. They can sleep with a couple guys and suddenly they're sluts or trash. It's ridiculous.
You definitely need to see for yourself. He's already proven himself sweet and understanding to you. He's okay with you not wanting to go further sexually until you're ready. That's a good sign that he's not a 'bad' guy.
As long as you're comfortable with him and he's not being a jerk or pressuring you to do anything, keep hanging out with him. Your friends don't hang out with him and talk to him in private like you do (hopefully, ha). They don't really know what this guy is about. They just know what rumors they've heard. The rumors could have easily been spread by an angry ex girlfriend or something of the sort. You can never trust what people are saying, it's best to take chances, but still watch your back.
Darby(:
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