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Feelings
Okay so like this guy somtimes doesn't talk to me for like a week he does flirt with other girls and somtimes i find hickeys that I didn't put there. I can never look in his phone he is kinda disant with what he tells me and he always wants to know whats going on in my life and if he finds out your dating somone he trys to get in the middle of it. I want to tell him how it bugs me but i don't know how to open the topic of it He has had sex with my other friends and like we don't use a condom he don't use a condom with anyone. He always want to hang even tho sex somtimes isn't in it but then drops me off and then next day i find hickeys on him and like when me and him very first started happen he was liek no hickeys. So what they chances of getting a STD from a guy?
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Alright, well, there's no accurate percentage I could give you as to the chance of getting an STD is. I would say it's fairly high though. If he's having unprotected sex with you, your friends, and God knows who else, he is likely to at some point get an STD and spread it to all of you. It might be something treatable; like gonorrhea or chlamydia. It might be something worse; like aids or herpes. Which does not go away. Ever. That's something you should definitely be thinking about.
And even though this wasn't part of your question, I'm obligated to say, what the hell are you doing with this guy? He's having unprotected sex with other girls, getting hickeys from other girls, even having sex with your friends. You could do so much better. Even if you were the worst person in the world; you could do better than this lowlife.
Don't risk yourself getting pregnant, getting STDs and getting your mental state trampled on. You can find someone that will be with you only and be true to you. Don't you think you deserve that? I know you don't seem to want to be only with him if you're dating other people and he's getting in the way, but you need to get out of this 'friendship' altogether.
But, since that's just a third party's opinion on things, we'll continue with your main question. How do you talk to him about how you feel? Get him secluded where there is no distracting environment. Just you two hanging out. Tell him that you don't see how it's fair that he can have sex with whoever he wants, but you can't date someone without him getting in the middle of things. You need to just tell him straight up, because dancing around the subject won't work when the subject is as important as this. Tell him that you feel (sad, angry, upset, hurt, etc..) when he's getting in the way of your relationships and getting to do whatever he wants. If he's really worthwhile (I can guarantee you he's not), he will understand, take this into consideration, and make actions toward treating you better in the future.
Good luck with this situation. Please try to protect yourself.
Darby<3
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