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Question Posted Monday May 11 2009, 10:23 am

I asked my fiance if he masturbated, expecting him to say no because he knows that I save myself for him, and never please myself unless he's there. He said around once every two weeks, in the shower. I think he's probably lying about how many times he does it because when he saw I was upset he said only four times since we've been together. We've been together for a Year and a half. It just doesn't add up. Not only that but I feel so hurt that he would rather do that than me. I can only think that he's in there fantasizing about other women. I feel like I can't satisfy him, and sex will never be the same. What do I do?

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coconutcatastrophe answered Monday May 11 2009, 5:57 pm:
don't worry so much about it. alot of guys do it when they're in relationships and it doesn't mean that the girl is necessarily doing a "bad job" or that they'd rather do that then with you, and most of the time if you guys are really attracted to each other, he's probably fantasizing about you...its just you're probably not with him as much as hes with himself or he could think that you don't want to do anything because you said you're saving yourself for him (until you get married i'm assuming) so maybe he thinks he's respecting you. and honestly i give him creds for being honest and telling you because theres many guys that do it and don't admit to it, especially to their girlfriends/wives.

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