|
getting over a crush
There is this guy that I like and I really want to just get over him but I can not. What should I do. Everytime I say oh I am not going to think about him anymore and follow my strategy of getting over him all of the sudden I am thinking about him . But I figured maybe its the challenge of trying to get over him that is making me want him more. I am confused what is up with me. I know its impossible that we will have a relationship. And I really dont want to think that I am inlove cause I want to get over it.
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Random Weirdos?
I think the best thing to do is to focus your attention on something else. Just about anything you could focus your attention on is more important than thinking about someone you need to get over. Is there some kind of project you could embark on to get your mind off of him? You could try learning something new, like a new skill or craft. You could read. You could spend time with some friends. If you just distract yourself at first by doing something else instead of thinking about him, it will get easier. Eventually, you really will forget. I hope it helps.
]
More Questions: |