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impossible love
so i started dating this guy that REALLY liked me two months ago. after a month he already said i love you. i was not completely ready to love someone because i dont think i was over my ex. but so then for two months we had a great relationship the only problem is that I knew that our relationship can not last. we both want different things and he wants to start a family and im not there yet, seeing as im younger than him. i still want to party and have fun. i told him that at the beginning and he said it didnt matter. so we went out but we of course had our differences and now two months later he realized what i was saying about us being different and wanting different things. i told him it was a matter of when things would end between us and we both agreed we didnt want to let feelings intensify. but the problem is that i though i was okay with breaking up, which we did on friday, and now i realize that i care about him too much. he was really sad that we split as well, and i missed him today a lot, but when i called him he never answered or called back...i think he knows we wont work in the long run... idk what to do? should i move on or try to get him back? our love will never last but should we just live in the moment and not think about that?
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It's time to move on. You've only been broken up for 3 days. Of course you're going to miss him right now. You want to party and go out and he's older. He wants to mellow and start a family. You're at two completely different places in your life. Sometime down the road, when you're older and ready to settle down, you can catch up with him again. If he's not already settled down, try to spark something again. Until then, go your separate ways. And don't worry about missing him right now. You'll move on soon.
Hope this helps,
Darby
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