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falling apart =/.
okay. so i know this is gona sound werid, but i just dont know what to do. theres this guy, i've known him for like 6months? idk. but bottem lines hes so crazy, sometimes a little to excessive but, i love it. hes not afraid of what anyone thinks and doesnt let anything stop him. hes completely off the wall when we hang out w/ a bunch of ppl. but when its just us, its so much different, he can be crazy but he can also be serious. i feel like im falling for him, even though i know i shouldnt. sometimes i think he is too, but heres the catch. hes told me before, in general terms not about us, that hes gona wait until he has his life straight before he dates anyone. and i get that. but the thing is, is that he's prob. going to be moving like 500 miles away soon. and its killing me, knowing im not gona be able to see him. its not the best thing for me to tell him how i feel, because that will just bring more hurt, and mix up everything. i just dont know what to do. he's all i think about. and its killing me. help please. i wanna cry it hurts so much. we relate on so many levels & i dont know what imma do without him if he actually does move. =/.
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I think you should hint at him, a little flirt etc leave him wondering, leave him to talk to you about it, you never know, giving him that little nudge might give him the reassurance he needs to make the move onto you! If he doesn't mention it again then tell him, but don't tell him you are falling for him, just tell him you like him, more than a friend. Don't say any more than you need to! Do it face to face, that way you'll be able to tell from his body language, if the words don't come out of his mouth.
Live for today, you never know whats around the corner. At the end of the day, what have you got to lose? The worst thing that will come out of it is that he'll say that he doesn't feel the same way, it'll be awkward for a day or two and it'll get back to normal. Don't let him move away until you've told him! You'll regret not telling him, and he will be 500 miles away. You never know, something amazing between you both could begin.
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I can somewhat relate to your problem. If he acts completely different around you then anyone else he probally does like you back, now wether are not he knows that, is well unknowen. What I did, Knowing that it could mess are friendship- I told him. According to the entire world I was extremely lucky that he is still friends with me. I say it wasn't luck...But who knows as for me, my guys a player.
That probally didn't I appologize for that. Point is I say tell him! You never now what's around the corner tell you go around the corner.
Good Luck!
-Lily
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