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Question Posted Saturday May 2 2009, 11:17 pm

ok so a few days or a week or something i asked a question. Things have gotten better since then but people keep telling me to talk to a councler and/or my dad. well i try to explain to my dad that i dont like the way he is doing things and they arnt very fair but he says he doesnt care because he is the parent. I think he just likes having power and control over me alot of the time. And i have tried to talk to a school consler. i told them i had thoughts of sucide, some of my friends even went to the principal telling him they were scared i would take my life and all the councler did was say we will talk somemore so i dont know. Its like every time things get good and im finally in a good mood my dad does something to bring me down. Any advice?

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Darby answered Sunday May 3 2009, 3:34 pm:
Sounds like you need to put your foot down with your father and really tell him what's up. Don't say, "I don't like when you ... it makes me feel ..." That clearly doesn't work for this situation. Tell him, "I have been having suicidal thoughts. If something does not change, I fear for my life. We need to go to family councelling because our relationship is not working."
Tell him when he's not busy. Look him in the eyes. Say it forcefully. That way he can't be stubborn and just pretend like there is no problem.

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