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oh boy confused


Question Posted Wednesday April 15 2009, 12:07 pm

So I have been talking to this guy for about a month he was my high school crush well he told me the other dayhes has the biggest crush on me for the longest time. Well he said he was givin me 3 months to see how I am around him which I can understand havent seen really seen/talked to each other since high school and he has ADHD and he doesnt take meds for it he wants to see how I act on his bad days. He said we will be pretty much together by then hes like unless you dont wanna be. And we was talking about my ex and how he hurt me hes like you put up with that asshole when here was a guy thats wanted to be with you all along. Well I dont know much about ADHD but he has days where you can tell somethings bugging him or he wont talk to me for that day is that normal? And do you see us being together?

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Additional info, added Friday April 17 2009, 1:39 pm:
so its been day 4 and he has up and disappeared I text him he dont text back I tried callin him once and left him a message on myspace he has been on but has not said nothing back to me I said if you dont wanna talk to me just say it and if somethings wrong I am here for you he has also been at home the past few nights why do guys up and disappear like that? Why would he say those things to me then just up and disappear out of the blue?.

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HottStuff answered Thursday April 16 2009, 5:04 pm:
Well I know that the symptoms for ADHD are trouble paying attention, trouble sitting still even for a short time, and acting before thinking.
But I don't think that "moodiness" has something to do with it...so he may be having some other issue too.

Well he sounds really adorable...like he really likes you a lot! lol...I think that's so cute...anyways, well do you still like him? Cause like I can't really tell you if you two belong together...if you really like him, then go for it! I don't see a problem with that. There's nothing wrong with having ADHD...it's not a severe thing.
He might also have bipolar disorder if he has days when he doesn't talk to you, but that shouldn't be something to worry about. Just tell him that you'll be there for him if he needs to talk. So then he knows he can talk to you about anything.

Hope I helped! And good luck!! :)

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