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wandering eyes.
I was using my boyfriend's computer while he was at work because my laptop wasn't working. I found when I was typing in a url, these urls to this girl's photo album came up. They weren't perverted pictures but I'm still a bit suspscious because I know he doesn't know her. I easily get jealous and he knows I'm very insecure. It's just what bothers me the most is he says his eyes don't wander. But I know they do, I can see it in his face. When I ask him or something, he'll blush. I wish he'd just tell me the truth. Should I mention it to him? If yes, how would I? It's been several days. Should I just pretend I didn't see it? Does that mean it's okay for my eyes to wander as well?
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Its natural for a guy to have a crush on a Eyecandy like the girl he was looking at.
It is appropriate for u to ask him just dont get mad if he was looking at them. GOOD LUCK!
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No. He's just going to think that you're an irrational thinker because if he doesn't know the girl whose photos he was looking at, then you have nothing to worry about. So what if he likes looking at her? You would probably get annoyed if he stared at you all day.
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Well to be honest with you, there isn't one guy on this earth whose eyes will not wander off to another girl, even if just a glance... But sometimes, wandering eyes don't mean a cheating heart. I understand insecurities, but if you say he doesn't know this girl personally, then there is nothing to be afraid of. Sure, your eyes can wander too, but don't overdo it, because then that's just coming back with a vengeance. If your eyes don't wander off now, there is no reason to do it now just because. He lies because he probably doesn't mean any harm to you, maybe because he really does love you and no matter how many pretty girls on this earth, you're pretty to him in your own unique and special way. :] As far as talking to him about, I would say yes, please do! Just tell him that you used his laptop because yours wasn't working, and as you typed something in address bar, you found something that caught your eye, and that when you found out what it was, it bothered you. He should be considerate of your feelings, and at least try and tone it down. Guys are very visual.. But if you guys are in a serious relationship, try and keep him entertained. It MUST be mutual though. I don't know how long you guys have been together, but if it's pretty long like a year then he must really love you. But yes, tell him how you feel! Also, if he doesn't tone it down, and doesn't try and make you the girl which he looks at constantly, then obviously he is inconsiderate... When you love someone, you'll do anything.. You'll kill yourself to stop or start whatever it is they want lol. So if this relationship hasn't been such a long one, and he doesn't treat you and your emotions with respect, it's time to find a guy who will ;] Good luck honey
-Uniq =]
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