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i need advice
I need advice. So me and my boyfriend have been dating for four months and just recently he broke up with me for 2 reasons one of them being because i go to college far away and because he said he wants to get his life together and he wants a girlfriend he can see as often as he like...he also said he still cares for me alot and likes me alot but he cant do the long distance relationship now. I acted pretty cool about the decision AND said we can remain close friends but i was wondering if there is anyway to get back with him or if he would even want to get back with me?
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Long distance relationships are very difficult to maintain. It may just be time for you to go ahead in your life and allow him to do the same. He is at least being mature and wanting to continue a friendship which does mean that he cares. If you too care about him, then you should be willing to try to let go and see where the future takes you. Its possible that after college you two will get back together or maybe you will meet someone new that becomes just as special to you as he was.
I would try to keep in contact with him on a friendly basis and try to go on for now. There really is no sure-fire way of convincing him to get back together with you. He may just realize that he can't live without you and be willing to try a long distance relationship after all.
Just try to give him some space for now. After all, you moving away is going to be very difficult on the both of you.
Best of luck. hit me up if you need anything else :)
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