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I cheated and want my boyfriend back.
Okay. Me and my boyfriend started dating on my birthday in 2006, it is now 2009 and almost 3 years. But yesterday april 4, 2009, he broke up with me. And let me tell you why. About less than a month ago I started talking to a guy, in LA, its about 6 hours from where I live. I never met the guy and never planning to. Well he called me babe and I did too. Well yesterday I got a text from the other guy saying that if he could call me in 15 minutes. My boyfriend read it and he broke up with me. I know I did something wrong. But I never had sex with the guy. I never even met him. Please I lost the love of my life. And I want him back. He is the one person I want to spend the rest of my life with. Please help me. I don't know what to do.
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I honestly do not consider this cheating. You never held hands with him, kissed him, met him, had sex with him or anything. You just talked. As far as I see it, you guys were friends & nothing more.
Your boyfriend is really overreacting over a text message. He's being INCREDIBLY immature, and needs to suck it up. Girls have guy friends, and boys have female friends. That's usually how it tends to be. There is no reason for him to have broken up with you or be mad at you. You accepted a phone call from a friend. And calling somebody babe isn't bad. I have been in a relationship before & called a guy friend "babe" before.
You seriously need to talk to this kid & explain everything. If you tell him everything, start to finish, he should listen. If he's really that hard-headed, then you need to move on because he won't change his mind.
I'm really sorry you're in this situation & hope everything works out for you. Good luck!
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Does he know that you never met this kid?
I think that if he knew that much, then it would seem way more harmless, because, really, it is if it's only over text...or even over the phone.
Tell him that you never planned on meeting this guy because you have him within reach & wouldn't want to have anyone else in his spot.
So, you really can't say that you "cheated." You haven't even been able to smile at the kid, much less kiss/sleep with him.
If you told him that you're sorry and everything that I wrote above, it would be very humbling, especially if you're the kind of person who doesn't find it easy to apologize, like many people, including myself, are.
If you really wanted to cheat on him, you wouldn't try it with a guy who lives 6 hours away because it'd be too easy to get caught if you ever wanted to go see him, as most couples like to see each other. Where could you be going that takes a 6 hour drive?
It's not as though your boyfriend could think you find this text-guy more captivating in conversation than him because...how much charm can you send through your thumbs? Not much.
Hope I helped.
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Hi,
I read your question and I have some really good advice that could work for you.
If you believe that this guy is the one you want to spend the rest of your life with, you should call him and tell him the entire story. Tell him the truth and if he really cares he'll understand and give you another chance.
-Here2Talk
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