thanks for your good advice to me,, it really helping me a lot,,,
by the way i talk to him and i know he will still deny it,, what step shuld i do?
i am really confuss,,
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? BahaiMa22 answered Sunday March 29 2009, 7:59 pm: I would warn him first, Let him know you know he is up to something and that if he doesn't stop then you will call off the marriage. See what he says, Test him a little bit. Seeing he wants to play with your feelings maybe you should play with his. Although I know calling off the marriage isn't exactly what you want to do it might be the step you will have to take. I'm not saying he is cheating, but if he is than yes that is wrong he is married to you and he should be faithful and honest. Remember like I said before you've already got your first warning with the pictures and phone numbers, Half of the time if a guy does that while dating you and in a committed relationship although he might not have nessacerally fooled around I still concider that cheating and even when you sit him down and talk to him it doesnt' always mean he is going to stop. Therefore, He got away with it once... he might think he can get away with it again. Talk to him, It is up to you whether you want to end this marriage but if he is cheating or fooling around remember YOU DO NOT DESERVE to be treated like that. If I was in that situation this is what I would do:
1. Talk to him, Tell him I know he's up to something and that if it doesn't stop it will be over.
2. If he continues to do so, Then as much as it would hurt me I would call off the marriage
Here is a little something to remember:
Once in your life someone will rip all that you are into little peices, They won't even watch where the peices land. During that time you will hurt but you will become stronger and you will learn you can conquer anything and anyone.
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