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falling in love.. good or bad?
Hey. I'm 17/white/female. I started dating my boyfriend (who is 18 and black), in january. Before we started dating he led me on so many times and he let me down just as much. Although he led me on and made me feel like shit, I liked him and I really let my guard down with him and we were great friends, he was just confused on what he wanted. After like the 3rd time he led me on, I told him I was done. I moved away that summer and we talked every once and a while. I really missed him but of course I wanted him to think that I was fine without him. During the summer we talked about a whole lot of stuff all the time. When school came back around, I moved back to the town I came from (where he is also from). We talked for a while about everything and I knew he had a gf, but we just talked as friends. They broke up one day and he came to me telling me about how he broke up with her. I wasn't sure what to think because I knew him and I were just friends. Well november comes around and we went the the movies with a couple friends. We didn't go together, we just saw eachother there as a coincidence. He came over to me and sat down next to me. During the movie we didn't really talk and we were sitting right next to eachother. He texted me like 30 minutes before the movie ended and said "idk if this is the right time but I think we should be more than friends" and he saw me read the text and I smiled. I looked at him and smiled back. I told him that I'd have to think about it because of our past. Well we talked a lot about getting together after that. I have never believed in love. I believe that you can love someone without being in love with them. And I told him that I loved him. As we got further into our relationship I started to get really serious with him and he became my best friend and my boyfriend. I knew that this was more than just love. He was always the one that said that he was IN love with me and I told him that I didn't believe in falling IN love, and he understood. He was completely crazy for me and I knew that. He promised me that he would take me out of this town when he graduated. He promised me a lot of things. And I'm falling IN love with him and I don't know how to act. He's everything to me and more. I'm completely crazy for him. He's my bestfriend;boyfriend. I truley believe that I NEED him. And I want to be with him for the rest of my life. We talk about our life all the time. I'm graduting a year before him and he's helping me believe in so many things. I don't want to break up when I graduate because I know I would be devasted if we were ever done. We've been through hell and back with eachother and everything is beyond perfect. How do you think I should deal with the whole college situation? how should we talk about it? Any suggestions? Sorry so long..thanks in advance.
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Look college is a great deal I am happy the two of you set your difference's aside and made what truely matters work. first off in any situation you are going to need your general studies. Which you can take at a college in town? that gives you two or four years to think about you and him to where you want to move to.. maybe go to a college in town for a year then transfer together to a better college. You can go to the college which you please now and him come when he is done. there are several possibilities you just need to sit together and talk about it.
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