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i want him
first of all i have a boyfriend hes aamazing and ive been with him for almost a year but i think of him now as more of a brotherly figure and my best friend then a boy friend. it actally kind of grosses me out when we do stuff now. and now ive met this guy who i am very attracted to and who i want to be with and i have actually talked to him about the pickle that i'm in and he wants me too.
please give me advice on how to break up with the boy who loves me and still be friends.
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I think you should just tell him exactly that. That he's amazing but you think of him more as a brother and a best friend. Tell him you still love him but want to be friends. If he really loves you, he would understand and want what's best for you. Don't sweat about it but when you do end things with him, don't instantly jump to the next guy. Give it some time. Tell that boy you like that since you just got out of a relationship, you need some time to think. If he wnats you, he'll wait. Don't worry, if you need anymore advice, I'm here :)
Good luck with it!
Love,
Rachel
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This is a very complicated situation..
You should let him down easy though.. Some how, like perhaps when you're not surrounded by a bunch of people but not exactly alone, maybe at dinner some night or lunch.. Explain to him carefully that for some reason you've fallin out of love with him, but you still love him.. Just not like you did in the beginning.. Also explain to him it's not his fault, it's just the way the cookie crumbled for you. You will always want to be friends, and want him in your life.. But you'd like to seperate and date other people.
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