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Confusing Situation. Alright well,
last year i met this guy and everything was really good but then he started dating this girl and things got really messed up. so we stopped talking until this january, when he randomly started talking to me again. Ive tried to resist it and everything cause of what he did before, i have dated other people recently, and it was fine cause i finally thought i was over him. So we havent really talked in about a month, but randomly tonight he text me saying he wants to see me. and im like i dunno maybe sooon. and hes just being really nice again and stuff. i really liked him alot, and i guess i still do.. he is the ONLY guy i have not been able to get over, especially after a year and all that stuff. he always knows when to come back. but i dont know what he is thinking and stuff,i dont think its good timing to ask yet. but i dont know if i should give it a chance or try to keep moving on? everytime i try to move on, he comes back.
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If you've been trying to get over him, any attempts to reconcile a 'relationship' will only erase all the progress that you've made in getting over him. It's perfectly okay to pursue a friendship, but from what I'm gathering from your question, if you try to get back together you're just continuing a vicious cycle.
Personally, I'd talk to this guy, maybe hang out with some mutual friends. I'd rather be dating a guy who wouldn't give me any bullshit like this. It seems like he's just messing with your head & not really worth your time anymore.
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-LM
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