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Do you think he likes me or is just a flirt?
Ive asked this question before and got no responce..
I saw your profile and you seem like a good person to ask it too :)
Hopefully you'll answer, beacuse I really
dont know.. haha.
So Theres this guy I know,
He's really cute.
I would be supprissed if girls didnt go after him.
When I first saw him, I figgered he was one of those cocky
guys (Most cocky guys are good looking.. ive noticed)
And I didnt Pay much attention to him at all.
Then he always looked at me and When I caught him starring he would look away. He would always try and talk to me and tap my shouler and try to make me laugh.
At first I thought he only acted this way beacuse I was paying no attention to him at all and he didnt like that.
But then he asked for my number and texted me right away.
We even began talking on the phone.. alot.
But Ive notcied, When we hang out with everyone else together he always gives the other girls hugs and things I dont know if he's "flirting" or jokeing around, but he told me he likes me, and I asked about those other girls and he said he likes them only as ffriends..
But how do i know he doesnt say the same thing to them?
Do guys do this to alot of girls or do you think he's telling the truth?
P.s- He one day really wanted to see me, came to my house,
and Held me in his arms while we played video games.. LOL XD
But how do I know he's not just a flirt?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Unfortunately, there is NO way to know he is sincere. If only dating came with a 'truth meter'!!
I can't make a call yet on if he likes you are not, but it certainly looks like it is leaning that way. He is certainly giving you extra time and attention.
I am trying to read between your written lines, and I think what I am seeing is ... you are afraid of getting hurt ...
But every relationship that doesn't end in a break-up, ends in death. In the end there is always pain.
So you can't let your fear of getting hurt hold you back. You just need to accept it as part of life and know you are strong enough to handle it.
This is how we grow and learn what we like and don't like about people. Even if the relationship turns out badly, you will learn from it and know how to make the next one better.
So take it slow ... and watch everything he does. Look at the way he treats you in both private AND public. Put 80% of your faith into what he DOES, and only 20% of your faith into what he SAYS. Because it is in his actions you will find the truth of how he feels about you.
Ask yourself this - what would you do if you weren't afraid?
Good luck!! XO
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