theres this guy i've been hooking up with for a while now. we met last september, and we've hooked up a few times. i've become really close to one of his friends recently, and he told me that this guy has a girlfriend. i believe him, for various reasons that i don't really want to get into right now. anyways. i just hooked up with him last tuesday, and i don't know if they were going out at that time. i don't want to ask because i don't want to make it obvious that me and this guy have something going on. we used to talk a lot, but we stopped talking. he acts like he cares, but i don't feel like we've gotten to that kind of "relationship" place yet, if you know what i mean. should i confront him about it? or just drop it and drop him?
sia answered Monday March 23 2009, 3:06 am: in my opinion i think you just ask the boy yourself but not by txt or on the phone just ask him inperson and just say u herd it from people and was just woundering if it was true.make it sound really casual and like smile about it and then see what he says because you never no his friend could be lying for farious of reasons his friend could like you and have a hint you like that guy so he wants to make you not like him or the boy may have had a gf a while back and dumped her before hooking up with you but just never told the friend that told you about the whole thing..just go for ti and see what he says dont just drop him without having a true valid reason because what you hear may not always be ture. [ sia's advice column | Ask sia A Question ]
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