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my ex's friend


Question Posted Thursday March 19 2009, 7:57 pm

Ok well there is this girl that i think i like but the problem is, one she is one of my friends ex's and two she is my ex's bestfriend. So i am completely lost. We have been spending more time together than we use to and idk if i like her or is it just one thing about her. But she is very beautiful, she is funny, and very fun to be around. And another problem is that we are both HUGE FLIRTS so like i am not sure if it is the best thing to do because we could ruin our friendship...

can you help me?


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boyycrazy answered Thursday March 19 2009, 10:01 pm:
hey~

well it sounds like you're in a rough spot right now...and im sorry. what you have to think about is that even though you have feelings for this person she may not feel the same.[some people just flirt as a natural thing]
Im sorry, this may sound harsh but the best thing i can advice you to do is to stay away from her..you would be violating the "unwritten rules of friendship" and that would hurt your, your friends, and probably even her feelings. the only way i would get close to her is if she doesnt like anybody else and if she shows signs that she likes you..but remember what i said about how flirtiness sometimes just comes naturaly from some without being stopped.
im sure you can find a relationship that doesnt hurt anyone

boyycrazy :]

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boyycrazy answered Thursday March 19 2009, 10:01 pm:
hey~

well it sounds like you're in a rough spot right now...and im sorry. what you have to think about is that even though you have feelings for this person she may not feel the same.[some people just flirt as a natural thing]
Im sorry, this may sound harsh but the best thing i can advice you to do is to stay away from her..you would be violating the "unwritten rules of friendship" and that would hurt your, your friends, and probably even her feelings. the only way i would get close to her is if she doesnt like anybody else and if she shows signs that she likes you..but remember what i said about how flirtiness sometimes just comes naturaly from some without being stopped.
im sure you can find a relationship that doesnt hurt anyone

boyycrazy :]

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