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I need some help
I have been dating my boyfriend for 10 months now I am 23 and he is 24. Things are great between us however when it comes to our sex lives his is down the drain and has been since we met. It upsets me, I've tried talking to him about it and his response is "I'm just not sexually active" and when I try to exspress myself sometimes he gets really down about himself. I'm confused by this. For one, He doesn't eat exactly healthy foods he eats mainly junk all the time and I know that can effect your sex drive on top of that he takes Welburtrin for his ADD and depression. However, We have made love before but it seems like he never really gets into it or doesn't want too and it makes me feel like it's a burden for him to be sexually active with me. I was thinking maybe I could go to the doctors and have his testosterone checked but he doesn't have any health insurance. Personally, I believe that if there is no sexually intimacy in a relationship than there really isn't a relationship at all...We have a committed relationship so I know there is no gap there on top of that there really is nothing to be stressed out about he isn't employed but we have plenty of money to make through and he gets out with friends on a regular basis. He did mention to me once that he doesn't have much exsperience in the sexual subject and I was understanding about it so since then we've started watching (Talk sex with Sue Johanson) and reading up on it to try and educate not only him but I as well.
I'm really confused by this...
Any help would be apprechiated
-BahaiMa22
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I think the first place to look is that welbutrin.
Here is a partial list of side effects. I will link you to the site as well. I know he can't afford it but he probably needs to see a doctor and tell him/her about his lack of interest in sex.
Some other common side effects of Wellbutrin (occurring in 1 percent to 5 percent of people) include:
* Menstrual problems
* High blood pressure (hypertension)
* Feelings of a rapidly or forcefully beating heart (palpitations)
* Increased appetite
* Indigestion
* Arthritis
* Anxiety
* A decreased sex drive (libido)
* Impotence (erectile dysfunction or ED) (see Wellbutrin Sexual Side Effects)
* Taste changes
* Low blood pressure (hypotension)
* Fainting.
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