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Restraining Order
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Okay so im 15 and my boyfriends 19. i love him to death. and he loves me. ( : we have been dating for a year . and we are crazy about each other.
my parents have been refusing me from talking to him for longer then that around 2 years, and id always out smart them and id talk to him all the time and sneak around on the weekends and stay at his house. now , my friend was worried because i had unprotected sex with him and she knew he had sex with many people before me. i lost my virginity with him. everything just felt right all the time and i couldnt ask for anything else. so my mom became suspicious that i was doing things with him and that i was dating him for good. so my mom talked to my old best friend about it and she ended up crying to her telling my mom i had sex with him and everything. i ended up telling my mom i did after she had asked me. after my mom told me that she called the cops (me thinking he was going to jail for rape) but it was just a restraing order. i dont want to be with anyone else besides him i love him more than anything in the world. and im gonna miss him terribly. i have no idea what i should do. he has no idea this is going on right now. he still thinks ill call him tonight and everything will be okay. when everything is going wrong. i need help .
thankss .
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If your mom got a restraining order I am sure he was informed of it by the police. He will know why you aren't calling. Your mom could still have him arrested for rape, which I am sure they will tell him.
You don't have much choice but to try and move on. If you don't you risk having him put in jail for a long time with a record that will haunt him forever. I don't think either of you want that.
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I was in the same exact shoes you're in right now.. But hun, realize your mom is taking action because she's concernec for your well being... Not to say that you're dumb or stupid.. because that's NOT the case.. BUT.. older guys tend to hurt us younger ones most of the time.. They're experienced most of the time.. So they know loopholes to cheating or lying.. etc.. About the having sex with him without protection, make sure you get tested. You really need to get tested for Std's/ Sti's... perhaps a pregnancy test if you want for precautions... Keep yourself safe.. I can't tell you you won't end up with him later on.. But trust me, things happen.. Life goes on.. And us humans move on. Just try to keep out of trouble.. Look at it this way.. your mom is trying to protect you..and by doing this she's kinda protecting him.. Because as most people would say.. they use the term 'jailbait'.. Your boyfriend could have gotten into worse trouble.. =/ if he comes near you things can get worse and you wont hear from him... So just try and move on.. My story is insane.. which is why I vowed not to date guys older than me... maybe by a year or 2 but no more.. Take care..
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