Is it inappropriate for my girlfriend to be tickling my best friend?
Question Posted Tuesday March 10 2009, 12:27 am
My girlfriend of 6 months just recently started tickling my best friend and acting goofy around him. We love each other and I don't think she would ever cheat on me, but I think she's doing it for my attention as I talk to her friends sometimes but never physically touch them. It just makes me uneasy seeing my girlfriend giggling with my best friend, but I don't want to act jealous because I don't want to start any drama as she probably doesn't mean anything by it...
How should I handle the situation (because this is making me really uncomfortable)?
Ram1234 answered Tuesday March 10 2009, 3:08 pm: Well ive been in the exact same situation as this my boyfriend used to do things with my mates and i dint like it so i used to do stuff to his mates to make him feel hw i did!
Then it came to a point we argued so much tht it wer cumin to a break up!
Hopefuly it dint we both realisd we jus wer actin pathetic!
So he dint do nefin n i dint do nefin jus mess bwt with each other lol.
So i think you shud talk to her before it becomes a realy big argument wich you dont want tht to happen.
Hope it all sorts out.
Uniq_The_Geek answered Tuesday March 10 2009, 1:12 pm: Hey!
I totally understand... There's nothing wrong in the way that you're feeling, it's only natural. The only way I can see you tackling this situation is if you let her know.. Just talk to her and tell her that it makes you uneasy whenever you comes into physical contact with your best friend... I don't think she would like if you were tickling and giggling with her best friend.. And if she wouldn't have a problem with it, just tell her gently to please stop. If she cares, she will. Good luck!
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