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confused..i dont get him.
remember that really long question i sent you about this kid who pretty much only talks to me because hes really horny all the time. and if that isnt enough to make you remember, he pressures me a lot into asking for things. yeah i have another weird dilema im sorry:/
ugh i have another problem. im really sorry that i keep on bothering you with this, if it annoys you, you could totally just tell me to stop i wouldnt care
alright so pretty much you were completely right about the whole blowup doll thing, he does treat me like thatt i didnt realize it that much until you told me. so basically he IMed me before and was like did i ever tell you that i want to do it wit you and i was just like yeahh a few times. and uh i think he thinks we actually are gonna. cause then he was like im gonna shove it in you until you start to moan and then he kept describing it but i just said like yeahh haha but uh honestly im not doing that. and i know its dumb of me to not say anything but i hope he doesnt think i want to. ive told him in the past i dont want to, he knows. ugh i just want him to stop asking but i want him to still talk to me just not like that. i dont want him to shove it in me. that sounds like rape. now im scared to say no to the things he wants because he'll get mad and stop talking to me. i kind of like it when he talks to me ive gotten used to the attention and i dont want it to be gone. i dont get that kind of attention a lot..so i dont know i kind of like it. and im not even sure if im ever gonna see him. he keeps saying "yeah and then ill do this and youll do that" making it sound im gonna see him..but hes always busy. obviously he doesnt wanna see me THAT badly if he can never make time for seeing me at our friends house. sometimes i cant figure out if he just SAYS were gonna do stuff but doesnt actually mean it. i feel like he just says that cause he knows i wanna see him but he just wants someone to have like text sex with all the time. i just sometimes think he doesnt actually wanna see me. and i dont know why. im really sorry if this annoys you i just want a guys perspective on the stuff he says and does and why he does it. and if he actually wants to see me or if he just wants to have a good time talking about it.
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well from now on, title you messages to me with "NOT A BLOWUP DOLL". that way i know it's you. i did answer this but this stupid site is making me say it all over again. why do you want to see this guy so much? i understand you like attention. i'm guessing that you are of averageish looks so you don't get tons of attention. bad attention is better than none at all. i don't know if it's possible to get him to change how he is with you. you just want to be talked to and not talked at. normally i'd say to not put up with his crap. but i'm guessing it's nice for you to have some guy looking to talk to you. i think he only wants you around to help him get off and then he wants nothing to do with you. i do feel for you. it sucks feeling unwanted. it isn't much better to be only good enough to be used. the thing is, if a guy things you are good enough to have sex with and leave, then someone would want to have sex with you and stay. don't forget that. i can tell you are younger. there is nothing wrong with younger. so don't think i meant there was. at some point you will have meaningless sex with guys you won't talk to again. do you want that time to be now? it's not a bad thing. but it will leave a person feeling hollow. your guy friend doesn't understand what turns a girl on. he talks to you as if he thinks you get turned on by the same stuff he gets turned on by. i dont know what kind of town or school is like. but there would have to be a number of guys that would give you attention. if you can get this guy's attenion then you could probably get someone else's. but i can understand you wanting a bit of attention even if it's bad. it's nice to feel wanted. when we don't have that many offers we become less picky about the attention we get. i hope i'm some help.
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