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Why do I keep dreaming about him?


Question Posted Monday March 2 2009, 3:30 pm

Okay! So the guy I am dreaming about is an ex, someone I haven't seen or talked to in atleast 4 years. I was 16 when I met him, and he was my first love and all that crapt. And for years I was in love with him. It took time to finally realize that life isn't a fairy tale. Anyways About 2.5 years ago, I met someone and been with him since then and I love him more than anything but yet I keep having dreams about my ex. All I ever wanted was to just forget him but I just can't. Its always dreams of being reunited with him, and at first he is hurting me emotionally and then he comes to tell me he never stopped loving me. The recently dream I had was a few days ago, and I was pranking him for some odd reason, and his mom who is now passed on thought I was his wife, who apparently beaten him and he was on his death bed. Well, I went to see him and at first he was rude to me, and then we started hanging out and spending as much time as possible before he died. I was with my boyfriend still and we had a daughter but he kept disappearing and well the baby disappeared once and didnt see her again...and that is odd cause I want a baby really bad. Finally my boyfriend had enough and gave me a decision and I found it very hard to make and when they finally had his funeral I wasnt allowed to go. It was weird in all but I sometimes think these dreams mean something. Part of me will always love him but I am with the guy I want to spend my life with but I feel like Im cheating cause I keep having these dreams, and sometimes they are very passionate. I remember when my boyfriend gave me a choice me and the ex accidently made love and the day of his funeral i knew I was with child. Its all so weird, but thats pretty much it. And is there any way to make sure you stop dreaming about a person??? Help me please.

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Edward_Cullen answered Tuesday March 3 2009, 2:10 am:
Your brain is just flashing back to good memories in your life even if they arent real and since your enjoying them and resenting them at the same time your brain is playing a trick on you.

So to make yourself feel better at work or when your boyfriend isnt around look him up on FACE BOOK or MY SPACE and maybe he'll be with someone new or he'll be total bum.

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HotSauce answered Tuesday March 3 2009, 12:11 am:
I don't think it's possible to stop dreaming of people or things in particuler. Normally there is meaning behind dreams. You should try a dream site, there they have ideas of what things mean in particuler. I believe dreaming of a baby means new life. -shrugs- Maybe that means soon you will get pregnate.. or someone you know will or something. Other wise I'm not to sure about you dreaming of an ex, perhaps it means that he may come into your life soon.. Or something of that .. Never really know.

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