Question Posted Tuesday February 24 2009, 10:12 pm
I live in London 2 by the way!! Eneyway I was dating this guy for a year and we got on so well and he said he really loves me and wants to be with me forever about a month ago he dumps me he said me being mixed raced confuses things to much for him he is white and he said he cant get to serious with me but he still loves me! I dont understand what he means unless I am weird nd I still love him so much and am lost.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? BrokenWings answered Monday March 2 2009, 9:12 am: I understand that you love him still, but don't understand how he can say he loves you then be so racist. I know how horrid it is when you have to leave someone you love but you should have more courage and self respect than to stay or bother with someone, however much you love them, that has views on race like that. To me, race has nothing to do with anything anymore, apart from residual culture etc. It sounds like a lame excuse to me and you deserve better than that. If he wants to know whats going on, tell him that those race comments are completely inaproppriate and that you are worth better than him.
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