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Is being mixed raced weird?
Hi my name is Sophie I am mixed raced and I have always found white guys more attractive than black guys. I was dating this guy for a year and not so long ago bout a month he dumped me he said he doesnt want to get to serious with me becouse since I am mixed raced it is to confusing for him. What do you think he meant by this as it hurt its like he saying being mixed is weird?
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Hello Sophie! Thanks for choosing my column!
First off I would like to say that any guy that would DUMP you for being multi-ethnic (or mixed) is a real jerk and not worth your time in the first place. I am sure you are beautiful inside and out in your own right. On that same note, you cannot choose how you were born. He should respect that.
I think what he meant by "confusing" was that he didn't understand whether to treat you as white or black. Maybe, he didn't know how to explain your skin color to his parents (who shouldn't care by the way)
At any rate, you should own who you are and any person that is worthy of you will accept you for who you are. Look at these perceptions as just a filter for all the people who weren't worth your time to begin with.
Thanks for your question I really enjoyed pondering the answer, and please come back if there is anything else you need.
Good night and Good luck!
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