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about the same guy!
Hey thanks a lot..but i did try to talk 2 him..but last week i saw a hecky on his neck =/ i was really disapointed =(....i guess he was just trying to play a game wit me but now it wil be hard to get over him since i wil be seeing him and he comes to the store 2 to 3 times a day ..what shOuld i doo?? how should i ignore him or try to play it off that i dont care about him?
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Hmmm, I'm sorry about that. This is why I said we're complete knuckleheads with relationships.
First off, just relax a little and try and think of this as another day at work; you just see it through.
Next, (If I were you) I'd try and not do anything too noticeable with my hair or makeup, just so it doesn't seem like your a bit sleazy or trying to seduce him in a store.
Every time you see him, act casual. And what I mean by that is, maybe not smile all of a sudden when he comes in or looks at you.
(Big question: Does he work there? Or just a customer?)
If he doesn't work there, and he begins to wander nearby or look at you, you can ask him in a serious voice, something like, "Can I help you?"
(try not to smile, just glance at him breifly)
Or maybe let your eyes wander to a different part of the store. If he asks you something, make it sound like you were a bit distracted, like you're not giving him 100% of your attention, and just realized he asked you something.
In other words, all this stuff I typed means, just don't look at him the same as you last saw him. Make it a little obvious that you're not all that into him anymore.
But like I said, nothing too drastic or blunt.
I'll talk to you more once you tell me if he works there or not, if you'd like that.
One of my fave quotes:
“There are easier things in life than trying to find a nice guy.....like nailing a chunk of jelly to a tree for example”
-XZ
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