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my life is over?


Question Posted Saturday February 21 2009, 3:39 pm

Okay, so last friday my boyfriend and i were sitting in our friends van skipping resource and our dean pulls up. he noticed there was mucinex like everywhere so we had to go to the office and get searched and simple tests done to see if we were high. He was, and he had pills on him, so he got arrested and expelled for a year. I wasnt but i had a knife on me and i had to go to STOP which is like school at the detention center and my mom serched my room and found pipes for smoking marijuana, condoms and a bunch of other stuff. so im really groundedlike i cant shut my door cant go on walks i lost my privilage of smoking cigarettes, i dunno but me and my mom have been constantly fighting and ive noticed i like..pull my hair out. I dont even realize im doing it half the time. but my hair is noticable thinner now and i dont like it and i dont think its normal...what should i like do about it. Also, i bite my fingernails till they bleed, which is also not normal..

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itdependsonyoux3 answered Saturday February 21 2009, 9:01 pm:
I have a feeling that you're doing this because...

1. you don't know what to do with yourself, so you do these things.
2. frustrated with the situation you are in [which i believe leads to you biting your nails to hte point where they bleed] and also angry with yourself and the situation at hand [which leads to you pulling out your hair]
3. you are feeling like you want to hurt yourself to take your mind off of the situation.
4. you, in your own way, are punishing yourslef for what you did.

what you need to do is get help. I agree with the person who answered this first. I think rehab would be best, and if you brought this up with your parents [about going to rehab or some kind of therapist] they would be proud of you for WANTING to change and admitting that you have a problem. in the end, once you get help, your life will be 20 times better. :]
hope I helped ! good luck ! xxo :]

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Myrrha answered Saturday February 21 2009, 7:41 pm:
you may just need some counseling. depending on the drugs you were doing, I would suggest rehab. I know it may feel good at the time you are getting high, but it really ruins your life. Many people get hooked as teens and never recover. Believe me, you don't wanna be living off your friends and family to get high, because you can't find a job cause of a drug addiction.

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