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strange..why is he being weird like this..
Hey so im pretty sure that you have answered some of my questions before about this situation, i am asking you for more advice on it because you have been extremely helpful at getting me to understand this. thank you so much.
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so im not sure if you remember, but if you dont, i will refresh your memory. About december 6, i met this guy who is a freshman, at my best friend's house. he slept over because he is friends with my best friend's brother. we really hit it off and had a lot of fun all 5 of us. a week later he messaged me and asked for my number [he liked me] then a day later he told me he didnt want a girlfriend but wanted my body and to have good times with me..whatever. we didnt talk for two weeks. he said he liked someone else. [girl who lives an hour away] and i guess i didnt care too much. then he randomly started talking to me again, it was weird. we decided to go to our friends' house january 3 and sleepover. the night before, he was IMing me but saying it was his friend talking. then his "friend" [it was him but he didnt want me to know] was asking if i would do stuff with him. and if he could make a move. and i said yeah sure. so i show up at their house, he barely talks to me. we flirted a little but i could tell he didnt rly wanna talk to me. i went home the next day crying. he IMs me again three days later. and asks if next time i would give him a handjob. as an expiriment i said yeah probobly. idontknowhwy i did that. but ever since then hes been gradually getting worse. and worse. he has gotten completely perverted and disgusting with me. he treats me like a hooker. he once asked if he gave me $20 if i would give him a bj.[no! ] thats pathetic. and on my birthday which was january 30 [he knew it was my bday..] he texted me and didnt even say happy bday, but instead said, so are we still doin those things? and i just said, yeah why do you ask haha and he goes, ok good so send me a picture of you in your panties . i said my friends were over and he said he was hanging out with some people. he obviously wanted to show it off to his friends. i got annoyed and of course didnt send it. then the next night, he IMs me and says so how come you never sent it and i told him it would be a bad idea and he goes, um no it is a good idea so send it. i was feeling under so much pressure and i was like would you be mad if i didnt send it..and he said, um yeah kinda. so of course..i was under so much pressure i asked , what would be acceptable for you. [i was so pissed] and he said really tight pants and cleavage so i just took a picture of my butt in jeans and then one of my chest in a tank top. he was like an animal. he asked every minute, yeah so did you send it yet? did you send it? send it baby i want you on me now send it! and as if i didnt feel uncomfortable already. so i did send them and then i just felt gross after what he said. he was like yes so nice baby i love you haha you have such nice tits can i just never stop playing with them? ugh i felt so gross. i seriously felt like a hoe. anyways, a few days later i IMed him and the first thing he says to me is hey i your rack and i just said haha thanks. and he was like, no your supposed to say i want your dick in my mouth.
can u believe that?! WE ARE NOT EVEN DATING. I HAVE NOT SEEN HIM IN OVER A MONTH. he is crazy!
and then our whole conversation was him begging for a bj and i kept saying sorry no i dont think so and then he just told me he wanted a deepthroat. and i kept saying that would make no sense since we arent even dating. and then he made me feel all bad and said oh yeah your a good girl who only gives handjobs and no bjs i forgot. ..you do not say that to a girl. you just dont. ugh he is such a tool.
anyways. after that day we didnt talk for about two weeks..he just never contacted me again. so last sunday i decided to IM him. i was SO confused. so i say, hey and all i get from him is a hi. then i ask, whatsup and he never answered. clearly, he did not want to talk to me. i felt stupid and just signed off of facebook. then just now when im finally started to get over him, he IMs me and asks about my status which was, happyy. he asks, why are you happy? and i said, cause today was a good day haha
then he says, and your thinkin bout me and your vag were doin it sooon
and then i said haha yeahh im just wondering how come we havent talked in like two weeks? and he just says, i dont know
..so then i say and when are we doing this cause we always talk about it but it hasnt happened. then he never answered. ten minutes later i asked, did you like not get that ? and he still just ignored it. and i KNOW he saw it cause he changed his facebook status during the time he didnt answer. this is so sketchy of him. why do you think he would IM me and ask why im happy.. and then just think its okay for him to not answer when i ask about something that he clearly still wants to do?! i dont get it! does he still want me? i sort of thought maybe, he is with that girl who lives an hour away and just wants to make sure that i dont like anyone else and am still up for doing those things. cause i feel like thats why he asked, why are you happy? i think he wanted to see if it was if i liked someone else or something. then once he realized it wasnt about me liking anyone else, he said and ur thinkin about me were doin it soon
im not sure though..im really confused..please tell me why he did that and just stopped taking to me weirdly..thank you so much
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I'm wondering after reading all of this why you bother with this guy.
Does he want you? NO!
He wants sex. He doesn't give a shit about you in the least degree. He is only interested in sexual favors, reading this has made me kinda sad for him because he is apparently really, really stupid.
You need to block every access you have to talk to him. Aim, e-mail, facebook, myspace, etc. Remove friendings, delete contact info, and forget he ever existed.
He stopped talking to you because you aren't the worthless slut he wishes you were. Its that simple. He wants you to be his sex toy and is willing to talk to you enough to try to make that happen. Beyond that, he doesn't care about you at all. Not even the least little bit.
Understand something about guys. We can be tenacious. Guys will put up with alot of shit for sex, especially young inexperienced guys like this one. He would be willing to talk to you for hours and hours at a time if he was actually getting laid. Not because he cared, but because he is willing to give you what you want to get the sex.
He's willing to pretend that he likes you and is interested in you to get what he wants. Thats what he's doing, and you need to stop wondering about it.
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