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he is ignoring me!
15 female.
okay so i have this guy friend and me and him have been very close for the longest time now, about 4 years. just a little backround, i've always trusted him with EVERYTHING, and he knows all my deepest secrets, and me and him also fool around, as in do sexual things, but we have never actually had sex. he had always told me how bad he wants to do it, and how amazing it would be and etc. but 3 days ago we were texting and we had decided to chill the next day, and everything was fine and normal. then after a while i told him i was thinking and i made a decision, he asked me what it was and i told him i had decided that i was 100 percent ready to have sex with him and i told him why, which is because me and him are really good friends, i trust him and cause i love him as a friend... and then after that he didnt write back AT ALL. so i called him like 3 times and he didnt answer..so i let it go. then next day i call him when i wake up, he doenst answer.. the WHOLE DAY i would text and call and he would ignore me. so i called his friend and told him to call him to see if he answers, and he did! so i got upset!! and i kept texting him, asking what was wrong and he would not respond. then i said "i want you to give me.... and explanation!" and he texted back, what about dick? and i was like WTF!! and then he said we should play mamamete which is spanish for pretty much suck and stick it in, he was refering to head then sex, and i was like wtf man, why are yu being like that? and he didnt write back!!
so its been like 3 days and we still havent talked. and im sad cause hes like the best thing in my life, and i really do love him! and i dont know what i did, and i dont know what to do, and i dont know how to get him to talk to me...
grr :'/ please help!!!!
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Of course a guy would freak out if you told him so openly you wanted to have sex with him.If you were making out and you told him in the middle,I think there would be something.But like this he just got shocked and now he's ignoring you.
You should give him some time to cool down.And don't mention anything about sex or hooking up...at all.Then see if he talks to you again.If not,give him up.You deserve better.Besides,are you even sure he likes you?If it is so,he'll come by in a few days and ask you to be friends again,or something more...lol.Hope I helped!
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