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18/f
okay...so this boy and i well,he moved awhile ago and we kept in touch (he loved like 10 states away).We both liked each other and its been like 2 years since he left and i still have feelings for him as does he.He comes up here like twice a year because he still has family up here but ive never gotten to see him again until last summer.When i saw him all my feelings came back,i coudl talk to him for hours.So we were talking last week over text message,and he said that he likes his girlfriend and he feels like he cheats on her with me i guess because were flirty with each other but he said that he dosent care because he feels like hes allowed to do that stuff with me,i guess it feels right to him? and that im very important to him or whatever so he's still gonna talk to me and such.So we had this thing where we were thinking since were going to college next year that maybe we could try being with each other even though were still gonna be in two different places but he's planning on maybe living back up here after college.It's weird saying this but i feel like he's "the one" you know? hes pretty much perfect. And i think he feels the same.My question is this its kind of comlicated but if you think you found "the one" but you both date other people (and they like them alot the person their dating) but you both know you want to be with the person who's the one but you just cant be with them because it cant happen as of right now like its not a good time? or i guess in otherwords,the person you want to be with is with someone else that they like,but they also like you but they cant be with you because it cant work as of right now.saying as if they love you but they like someone else? because this guy and i cant just stop dating or seeing whats out there you know?but even when im dating guys i still dont like them as much as the guy who moved,i guess you could say i compare the guys with him.So yeah i know this is very confusing if you need me to explain anything better just let me know.But i just really wanted to know,and if anyone ever experienced this before thanks!
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ok, im just trying to pull out what i know you were asking. some of that was a little confusing. ^.^
so, it sounds like you really love him, but you dont want to stop dating whomever your dating, correct? everyone goes through the "i have a boyfriend, but i cant get him off my mind" phase.
and also, if you both are dating someone else, you shouldnt be flirty with eachother. whether it means anything or not, your boyfriend and his girlfriend will both be very upset if they found out.
talk to the guy who moved. tell him you really like him, but you guys cant be more than friends right now. you're both with someone else...but ask him if theres any hope for something more than friends in the future. like you said, its just not the right time. :
i really hope this all works out for you. :)
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