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what did i do wrong.. [shortened]
Hey so i tried shortening this but it was hard for me to make it two paragraphs because there is a lot of stuff that is needed for me to say or else its hard for you to understand how i feel, i am sorry:[
well there is this guy who is a year younger than me, i am a sophmore he is a freshman [in highschool] who is friends with my friends brother and i met him at her house back in december. weve been talking here and there on facebook and i saw him again at their house in january. after i saw him there we would talk and he told me how he really wants me badly [only in a sexual way] and how he wanted to do all of these sexual things with me [i think he was just going to use me] also something else that is weird is that he likes this girl who lives an hour away who he only sees once a year and im pretty sure they are going out. but anyways i didnt think he cared if he had a gf so far away and talked to me like that too.
one night we were talking and he pressured me into sending a picture, he said hed be mad if i didnt.. but it was just of my chest while wearing a tank top and then my butt in jeans..
but after i sent them i looked at his fb wall and that girl had wrote, I LOVE YOU TOO!!!! so i think they are going out.
about two weeks ago I IMed him because he hadnt IMed me since i sent those pics and i was confused. and so our whole conversation was him begging me to give him a bj. i kept on saying no i dont think so sorry but he kept asking and making me feel bad..at the end of the conversation he just said i want a deep throat from u sexy ;] and then he said for me to text him. so i did. but his phone was off and he didnt get it until two days later but then never responded.
so about two days ago i decided to IM him..only because we havent talked in two weeks and i dont understand why..i thought maybe its because he hadnt seen i was online at the same time or something. so i IM him and all i get from him is, hi
which is weird because i always get a hey. and HE usually IMs me first.
then i go, whatsup
and he just never answered. what the hell did i do. but i mean he didnt treat me nice at all or anything but i just dont see why he doesnt want me anymore, why so sudden. im so confused and i feel so bad about myself and so ugly. please tell me what it was that i did..he always told me how badly he wanted me, he really wanted to do stuff with me, but now all of the sudden im just nothing? things dont just change like that. he used to just fine with me not giving him a blowjob so how could that change this? he told me im really hot. like all the time. so ..i dont get this. at all. i just feel stupid for IMing him now.
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Trust your instincts and what that little voice in your head says about him. It's a cliche but alarm bells should be going off in your head. You're right the guy's a slimeball who only wants you for his own gratification.
He doesn't give a damn about you and only wants sexual favors. What concerns me is that he asked for racy photos. You made a HUGE mistake in responding. Luckly, what he posted online was not pornographic. He embarrassed you but it could have been worse.
You need to get smart and document his e-mails, IMS and write down what he has been saying to you. Tell your parents, principal, guidance counselor etc. what he has been doing and how he has been sexually harassing you. He can and should be charged by the police for this. He has serious head problems.
You caught on to him and denied him the very thing he wanted a sexual favor. Once he saw you weren't going to oblige and were disgusted he moved on to a potential next victim who might give in.
You don't want to be with this guy. He has serious head problems and tells girls what they want to hear and pressures them to do things they don't want to do. Be sure your family and the people I mentioned get the full story on him from you. There's tons of other girls he's doing this to or has but they might not have courage to come forward until you blow the whistle.
I sure as hell hope you didn't delete anything he e-mailed or Imed you as that's all it takes to nail him and teach him a lesson as sooner or later he'll get arrested as an adult for something far worse like sexual assualt. He's developing into a real predator already. Put a stop to him.
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