Question Posted Saturday February 14 2009, 12:06 am
For the past week, maybe less ... I've been having wierd dreams about this guy who said he liked me, I said I liked him, and then like a couple days later he goes out with his ex girlfriend. well they've been going out for like 3 weeks now, and I don't know if it's the fact that it's valentines day and I'm not his girlfriend, but my dreams are always INVOLVING HIM. And I wake up wishing that they were real, although it's never about him breaking up with his girlfriend, I always want him to in the dream, but he never it does. They're all basically about getting him to notice me and trying to tell him how I feel and how he hurt me and that I still like him. [right now we've been ignoring eachother for countless weeks] In my drea last night I made a poem thing [I write poems and stories] and I remember bits and pieces of it. He was standing infront of me in a gray suit, black tie, and white undershirt. I was like looking at him from the ground. It seemed like I was lower than him, I don't know. But I was saying a poem to him, it was something like not wearing me as a coat and that I won't be the heart on his sleeve and something about how he can't do that to me, and how can he not see...
I don't know. But I seriously need to know why this is happening now. I can't get him off my mind. Like, we just stopped poking eachother on facebook, his girlfriend is OPENLY flirting with this guy on facebook wall to wall. I just don't know what to make of my dreams or any of this? please help me figure this out!!!!
Just a couple of weeks ago I felt that I fell in love with a girl that goes to my school, I couldnt stop thinking about her, her fatal attraction, and how i dreamed of her evey night and wished that those dreams were true. Where we had a family and loved each other and what-not, than eventually I got over it I relaized that it was only PUPPY-LOVE and it happens very often to next to everyone I know.
When I see her in the halls I always try and do my best to get her to notice me but she never does and it upsets me and I'm still trying to get over her but every time I try to it seems next to impossible for me to stop trying to get her to notice me
And this is what is happening to you correct?
You feel that you CANNOT go without this person
And you may be right because I'm in the same situation as you
But just let time fly and believe me eventually the urge to be with him with de-tensify (dont know if thats a real word or not)
You wont get over him TRUST ME no matter how hard you try but you will find a way to deal wth it believe me this is something that you must do for yourself and advice cant fix [ josephballard10's advice column | Ask josephballard10 A Question ]
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