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guy best friend
15/f (sorry this is so long)
i have a best friend and hes a guy and we share a locker at school and have been really close and talk about every single night and can tell each other anything.. but one night we hooked up and we had a really long talk about us and he said he kind of liked me and i said the same back and we both agreed we didnt want to screw up our friendship but that we could try to make things work between us and see where it goes as long as we dont ruin our friendship .. but then he said no hard feelings if it doesnt go anywhere and i was stupid and agreed to that at the time bc it was easier said then done. and about a month later after we hooked up he has been acting strange and ive noticed he has been talking to other girls and txting them and stuff and for like a week we didnt talk at night which is so not like us so i felt like something was wrong .. and our school has this formal dance coming up that i asked him to and all our friends said he really wanted to go with me so i asked him and he said yes but then that week that it was time to buy tickets for the dance the week before was the week we hadnt been talking and then one night he got mad at me over our table arrangements at the dance and then said we shouldnt go together anymore and i was really upset and talked to him in school the next day about it and he said he didnt want to go with me bc he didnt like me and feel the same way and he didnt want to hurt me incase we go together and i start liking him more and he doesnt and he said the last thing he wanted to do was hurt me but EVERYBODY has been saying we should go out and that were cute together and he has been kind of getting mad about that and i just felt so upset bc i thought everything was good and i thought it was out of the blue that he didnt like me anymore ... were still going to go to the dance together as friends but i dont know what to do.. after that should i move on? and what if he starts to like me again do i have to say no to him and do the same thing he did to me so i dont get hurt again? and were best friends so i dont know how to go about this.
thanks soo much if you can help its appreciated =)
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