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im sooo sick of being hurt.
well im falling so hard for this guy and im like almost in lovee with him and love isnt a term i use often or ever abuse.but we dated and he broke up with me for his first love which is understandable. but during that time they were together she broke up with him 7 times in one month and nothing was working out. so finally he told her he was done. and through this whole time he still talks to me. and still lets me know in little ways he still cares about me, and i obviously care about him too. and we hung out superbowl night and things went so much farther than they should have, and the next day him and her were back together again. then the next like 3 days they were on a break and werent together. so weve been talking for two nights now because he told her he didnt want to be with her anymore bc shes always saying how she is falling out of love and stuff and she tells him he needs to change or she is dating this other kid. and he is like in love with her because it was his first love and stuff. but today after school i went to his house and we hung out for a couple of hours and he told me how he wanted me to be his everyday and we kissed and were all over each other and stuff. and then i get home and like everything crashed again and she is trying to get him back and she is his biggest weakness and im scared he will leave me AGAIN for her. and things with them seriously are never ever going to work out. and he still tells me like right now that he doesnt know whats going to happen. and he isnt ready to be with me yet but he doesnt want to let me go and he doesnt know and all this stuff and i cant let go of him ive tried sooo hard it just wont go away. im stuck in this muddy situation wanting to be with him soo bad but i could never compete with the person he loves =[ i dont know what to do. ive tried telling him bye but he pulls me back innnn. sorry it was soo long =/ but should i let him slip away or fight for him?
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I don't know how old you are,but your still in school, so your still very young. You say your stuck in this muddy situation, get out of the mud. Why are you allowing yourself to be a back up for someone that uses your feelings like he is playing ping pong! Can you see the pattern here? She probably finds out he has been with you and sees if he will come back.It just sounds not fair to your feelings. I wouldn't even date or be with him until he has not seen her or have talked to her for 6 months, then, maybe, I'd beleive him. I'd still have some doubts. Don't let yourself be used like this. You are worth more than that. Don't be someones' spare tire. There are other guys out there that would love to have you. Give them a try. This guy cannot pull you back in, if you didn't give him a rope. You don't have to let him in. Have control over what happens to you. He doesn't fear losing you over her, he knows you will always be there. He doesn't care if you have to wait, or get hurt. Its all about him. Be careful. take care.
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tell him straight up that she is using him and walking all over him. She doesn't want to be with him, or she wouldn't keep breaking up. If she says she is falling out of love with him, she is, and is not worth his time anymore. You tell him to decide, its either you, who loves him and wouldn't yo-yo with him, or its her who doesn't want to be with him.
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